Christmas Messages for Grandson & Granddaughter: 125 Ideas

The best Christmas message for a grandson or granddaughter shares a memory, names something you are proud of, and promises the next time you will be together. That takes about 25 words and beats a page of general blessings. Below are 125 Christmas messages for grandchildren — for a grandson, a granddaughter or the whole crew at once, from toddlers to grown-ups, from grandparents nearby and far away — plus how to sign the card and where to write the words so they last. For the rest of the family, see Christmas messages for kids and Christmas messages for the whole family.

What should a grandparent write in a grandchild's Christmas card?#

A grandparent's Christmas card works when it sounds like the two of you. Parents write about the year; grandparents write about the bond — the joke only you share, the thing you always do together, the next visit. Three parts are enough:

The memory is what makes a grandparent's message different from everyone else's in the pile. The promise matters just as much: a child who knows the next pancake breakfast is already planned feels held, even from a long way off.

There is research behind putting closeness first. Sara Moorman and Jeffrey Stokes followed grandparents and their adult grandchildren through the US Longitudinal Study of Generations, which collected data between 1985 and 2004. They reported in The Gerontologist (2016) that greater emotional closeness went with fewer depressive symptoms in both generations, while more frequent contact on its own did not lower them. A Christmas message is one of the few times a year a grandparent says that closeness out loud.

Short Christmas messages for grandchildren#

These short Christmas wishes for grandchildren fit a gift tag, the corner of a photo card or a text. Each is under 15 words; add the grandchild's name and sign it the way they say yours.

1. Merry Christmas to the brightest star on our tree.
2. Grandma's kitchen smells like gingerbread and is waiting for its best helper.
3. You are the best thing that ever happened to this old family.
4. Wishing you a Christmas as sweet as Grandpa's fudge.
5. Every ornament on our tree reminds us of you.
6. Merry Christmas, kiddo. Grandpa saved you the biggest candy cane.
7. Our favourite Christmas tradition is loving you.
8. Hugs from Nana, squeezes from Pop, and a very merry Christmas.
9. May your Christmas be cosy and your stocking be heavy.
10. Of all the gifts we have ever had, you are still the best one.
11. Sending love by the sleigh-load from Grandma and Grandpa.
12. Merry Christmas from the two people who brag about you the most.
13. Snow outside, cocoa inside, and you in our hearts.
14. You make our Christmas merry just by being you.
15. Merry Christmas, sunshine. Come and see us soon.

Christmas messages for a grandson#

A grandson at four wants a joke and his name; at fourteen he wants to be spoken to like the young man he is becoming. These Christmas messages for a grandson run from little to grown — pick the line that fits his age, then change one detail so it is unmistakably his.

16. Merry Christmas, little man. Grandpa needs his best helper for the snowman.
17. To my grandson, the fastest sledder on the whole hill.
18. You built the tallest block tower Grandma has ever seen. Merry Christmas, builder!
19. Merry Christmas, buddy. The train set is out, and the conductor's hat is yours.
20. Thanks for teaching me the rules of your favourite game. I still don't understand them, and I love it.
21. Merry Christmas to the boy who always checks if Grandpa needs a hand.
22. You were so patient when your little sister knocked over your fort. That's real kindness.
23. To our grandson the goalkeeper: Merry Christmas, and save us a seat at the next game.
24. Merry Christmas, Jack. I'm proud of how hard you worked at your reading.
25. You've grown three inches and a whole lot of heart since last Christmas.
26. Merry Christmas to a grandson with a great laugh and even better taste in snacks.
27. Watching you become a good, steady young man is one of the joys of my life.
28. Merry Christmas, grandson. You have your dad's grin and your own good heart.
29. Whatever the new year brings, you can always call your grandpa.
30. Merry Christmas to the young man who still lets his grandma hug him in public.

Christmas messages for a granddaughter#

The same rule works for a Christmas message for a granddaughter: praise what she did, not only how she looks, and keep one detail that only the two of you would understand.

31. Merry Christmas, sweet pea. Grandma has the sprinkles ready.
32. To my granddaughter, the best cookie decorator in the family.
33. You sang every word at the school concert. Grandpa's still humming it. Merry Christmas!
34. Merry Christmas to the girl who makes Nana laugh until she snorts.
35. You were so kind to the new girl in your class. That made us very proud.
36. Merry Christmas, little star. You light up every room you twirl into.
37. To our granddaughter the artist: your drawing is on our fridge, front and centre.
38. You climbed to the top of the big frame at the park. Merry Christmas, brave girl.
39. Merry Christmas, Lily. Thank you for the bracelet — I wear it every day.
40. Merry Christmas to the girl with the biggest questions and the biggest heart.
41. Watching you grow into a strong, funny young woman is the best show in town.
42. Merry Christmas to my granddaughter, who is somehow wiser than her grandma already.
43. However far you go, there is always a seat for you at our table.
44. Merry Christmas, darling. You are your grandmother's favourite reason to smile.
45. You make the world kinder just by being in it. Merry Christmas.

Christmas messages for all the grandchildren at once#

One card to a house with three grandchildren still deserves every name in it. These Christmas messages for grandchildren work for a set of siblings or a whole tribe of cousins.

46. Merry Christmas to Ava, Leo and Max — our three favourite reasons to bake.
47. To all our grandchildren: you are the best gift Grandma and Grandpa ever got. Every single one of you.
48. Merry Christmas to the noisiest, funniest, best-loved bunch of grandkids in the world.
49. Our tree has one ornament for each of you, and it's the most beautiful tree on the street.
50. Merry Christmas, grandkids! The cousins' table is set and the cocoa is on.
51. To our grandchildren, near and far: wherever you are, you're right here with us.
52. We love each of you in a different way and all of you the same amount. Merry Christmas.
53. Merry Christmas to our grand team. The snow-fort rematch is on.

Children notice whose name comes first on a shared card, and they certainly notice whose name is missing. Write every name, in the same order every year, and the order stops being a question.

Christmas messages for a teenage or grown grandchild#

Teenagers can smell a greeting-card line from across the room. Keep it short, specific and free of baby names; a grown grandchild wants to be seen as the adult they are.

54. Merry Christmas. I'm proud of the person you are, not just of what you do.
55. You'll always be my grandkid, but I love getting to know the adult you're becoming.
56. Merry Christmas! Thanks for that long talk in the car in August. I think about it often.
57. Whatever you decide about college, I'm in your corner. Merry Christmas.
58. Merry Christmas to my favourite person to argue about music with.
59. You don't have to call more. But when you do, it makes Grandpa's whole week.
60. Merry Christmas to you and the lovely person you're bringing home. Both of you are welcome at our table.
61. Go out and live big. Come home whenever you like. Merry Christmas.
62. Merry Christmas to my grown-up granddaughter. You were worth every bedtime story.
63. Thank you for still coming to Christmas at our house. It means more than you know.

Teenagers need grandparents more than they let on. In a study of 1,515 secondary school students aged 11 to 16 in England and Wales, published in the Journal of Family Psychology (2009), Attar-Schwartz and colleagues found that greater grandparent involvement went with fewer emotional problems and more prosocial behaviour.

Christmas messages for a new grandbaby#

A message to a brand-new grandchild is really a letter to the adult they will become, so write it to be read in twenty years. The full list of baby's first Christmas messages sorts lines by how old the baby is on the day.

64. Welcome to the family, little one. Grandma has waited her whole life to write that.
65. Your first Christmas, and already you have Grandpa wrapped around your tiny finger.
66. We held you by the tree, and the lights were nothing next to you.
67. Merry first Christmas, grandbaby. There are so many stories we can't wait to tell you.
68. You are the newest name on our Christmas list, and the loudest. We love it.
69. Little one, your grandparents promise you cookies, stories and a lap that is always free.

Christmas messages from grandparents far away#

Distance is the normal case, not the exception. AARP's 2018 Grandparents Today survey of 2,654 US grandparents found that more than half have at least one grandchild who lives more than 200 miles away, and that distance is the biggest barrier to seeing them. The same survey found the phone giving way to video chats and group texts: 46% of grandparents reached grandchildren by phone in 2018, down from 70% in 2011. A card in the post has become the rare thing a grandchild can hold.

70. We're far away, but we hung your paper star first.
71. Merry Christmas! Leave one cookie for Santa and one for Grandpa — I'll eat mine at the same time.
72. Distance is just miles. You are in our hearts every single day.
73. We'll open presents together on video at ten o'clock. Wear your pyjamas!
74. Grandma is counting the days until spring and your big visit.
75. Merry Christmas from across the ocean. The hugs are coming by the slow boat.
76. We miss your laugh at our table. Save us a seat at yours.
77. This card has travelled a long way to tell you one thing: we love you.
78. Our house is quiet without you, so we play your favourite carols extra loud.
79. Merry Christmas! Read this book and imagine Grandpa reading it right next to you.

The article on the book grandparents give — and end up inside covers the long-distance case in more depth, including reading the same story together over a video call.

Christmas messages to send with money or a gift card#

Money in a card is practical and very welcome, especially from about age eight. It can also make the card feel like a transaction. The fix is to make the money the smallest part of the message and give it a story.

80. Spend this on something that makes you laugh, then call and tell me what you chose.
81. For your piggy bank, from your grandpa's — save one coin for luck.
82. A little something for your next adventure. Send us a photo of whatever it becomes.
83. Grandma says spend it wisely. Grandpa says spend it on sweets. You decide.
84. For books, for treats, or for that thing you keep talking about. Merry Christmas.
85. This is for the dream fund. Big dreams need small starts.
86. Put it towards the guitar. We expect a concert at Easter.
87. Not a big gift, but it comes with a very big hug.

For younger grandchildren, a book or an outing usually outlasts cash: a five-year-old forgets the note, but remembers the afternoon at the aquarium with Grandpa.

Funny Christmas messages from Grandma and Grandpa#

Grandparents are allowed to be the fun ones. Pair the joke with one warm line so the card is still worth keeping.

88. Your parents said no more sweets, so we hid some in this card. (We didn't. Check your stocking.)
89. Grandpa wanted to sign this card but couldn't find his glasses. They were on his head.
90. You're our favourite grandchild. (We wrote that in all the cards.)
91. Santa called. He says you've been nicer than your dad ever was.
92. Merry Christmas! Remember: at Grandma's house, bedtime is a suggestion.
93. We bought you a drum. Your parents have been notified.
94. Grandpa is still recovering from your snowball ambush. Rematch at noon.
95. Merry Christmas from the people who taught your parents everything they know. Don't hold it against us.
96. Grandma ate one of your cookies for quality control. And then three more.
97. If you need anything for Christmas, ask your parents. If they say no, call us.

Religious Christmas messages for grandchildren#

For grandparents whose Christmas starts at church, these keep the faith simple enough for a child to read and warm enough for a teenager to keep.

98. May the Christ Child bless you and keep you, today and always.
99. We pray for you every night, and on Christmas Eve we pray twice.
100. Jesus is the reason for the season — and you are the reason for our joy.
101. May the peace of that first Christmas night fill your home.
102. You are a blessing to this family. Merry Christmas, little one.
103. Like the star over Bethlehem, may something good always lead you home.
104. We thank God for you every Christmas, and every day in between.

Christmas messages for stepgrandchildren and great-grandchildren#

The same 2009 study found that grandparent involvement was more strongly linked to fewer difficulties for teenagers in lone-parent and stepfamilies than in two-parent families. A stepgrandparent's card is not a formality; it can be one of the steadiest voices a child hears.

105. We joined your family a little later, but we love you every bit as much.
106. You didn't get to choose us, but we're so glad we got you. Merry Christmas.
107. Our family got bigger and better the day you came into it.
108. To our stepgranddaughter, our granddaughter, our girl — however you like to say it. Merry Christmas.
109. Merry Christmas to my great-grandson. Four generations of love are standing behind you.
110. Great-Grandma has seen a great many Christmases, and yours is her favourite.
111. Merry Christmas from Gigi, who waited a very long time to meet someone as wonderful as you.

Christmas messages after a hard year#

The first Christmas after a grandparent dies, a move away, or an illness changes what a grandchild needs to hear. A message from the grandparent who is still here can name the hard thing gently.

112. Christmas is different without Grandpa. Let's hang his star together and tell his best stories.
113. Grandpa loved Christmas morning with you more than anything. He'd want us to laugh today.
114. Grandma is a little slower these days, but her hugs are exactly as strong.
115. New house, same Grandma. Come and help me decorate it.
116. We know it has been a hard year for your family. We're right here, always.
117. I'm sorry I can't be there. Call me on Christmas Eve and we'll read our story together.

The Child Mind Institute's guide to helping children deal with grief is a careful place to start when the empty chair at the table is a grandparent's.

Messages to write inside a book for a grandchild#

A card is read on Christmas morning. A book a grandchild keeps carries a grandparent's words for decades, so these inscriptions are written to be found again.

118. From Grandpa's shelf to yours. Read it slowly, the way we did.
119. When you read this, hear my voice doing all the silly bits.
120. This book was chosen by Grandma, who loves you more than all the stars.
121. For the grandchild at the top of every list I ever make.
122. Christmas, the year you lost your front teeth. Love, Nana and Pop.
123. One day you'll read this to your own grandchild. Tell them about us.
124. Every time you open this, we're reading it with you.
125. Written by your grandma at her kitchen table, on a snowy December night, with love.

How should grandparents sign a Christmas card?#

Sign with the name your grandchild actually uses for you. A toddler who calls you "Pop-Pop" does not know who "Robert" is, and a card signed with the wrong name feels like it came from a stranger.

• Write the date, including the year. Grandchildren who keep cards keep them in a box, and a box of undated cards is a puzzle nobody can solve later.
• Add a first name when there are two sets of grandparents. "Grandma Sue" and "Grandma Rosa" stop the cards getting mixed up — and stop anyone feeling second.
• Sign together or separately, but sign for real. A handwritten name, even a shaky one, is the part a grown grandchild runs a thumb over.

Why does a grandparent's Christmas message matter so much?#

A grandparent's message matters because it is proof of a bond the grandchild did not have to earn. Three findings explain the weight a few lines can carry.

Closeness is the active ingredient. In the Moorman and Stokes study above, it was emotional closeness — not the number of visits — that went with better mental health for grandparents and grandchildren alike. A message that names a shared memory is closeness in written form.

Grandparents help teenagers through hard years. Attar-Schwartz and colleagues found the link between grandparent involvement and fewer emotional problems held across family types and was strongest in lone-parent and stepfamilies.

Writers underestimate how much a note means. In a 2018 study in Psychological Science, Kumar and Epley found that people who wrote letters of appreciation consistently underestimated how happy and surprised the recipients would be. If you have been wondering whether a long message from Grandma is too much, it almost certainly is not.

Where should a grandparent write a Christmas message so it lasts?#

Where the words go decides how long they live. AARP estimates that US grandparents together spend 179 billion dollars a year on their grandchildren — and the message is the one part of the gift that costs nothing and can outlast all of it.

The book wins because children reread books. A grandparent's message on the first page is heard again every time the story is read — by a parent at bedtime, by the child alone in the morning, and by you, if you are there to read it.

How do I put my message inside a book made for my grandchild?#

Every KindFable book has a message page. In the printed book it sits on its own page under the heading "A message for" and the child's name, followed by the words, who they are from and the date. If it is left empty, the page stays ruled so you can write by hand.

A grandchild's photo is always uploaded by their parent or guardian — that rule holds for every child's photo on KindFable — so the easiest way is to make the book together:

1. Agree on the story with the parents. Grandpa's Christmas List and The Christmas They Made put a grandparent on the page beside the child.
2. The parent adds the child's name and age at /create, so the words fit the age.
3. The parent uploads one clear photo of your grandchild and ticks the consent box. Your grandchild becomes the character on every page, with the same face from cover to last page.
4. Send the parent your own photo for the grandparent in the story, so Grandpa or Grandma is painted to look like you.
5. Tell the story box what only you know — the goat that eats everything, the nickname, the cookies you always bake — and choose an art style.
6. See the cover before anyone pays. The painted cover is free to look at; nothing is charged until you decide.
7. Write your message. When the book is ready, open it in the reader and tap "Write a message for" your grandchild, type your words, add who it is from and the date, and save.
8. Choose the hardcover for the gift. It comes with narration and a song of the story, and the digital book is ready the same day as a safety net. Prices are on one page.

The book stays in the family's dashboard, where it can be reread in the page-flip reader, played with its narration and song, and reordered in print — so a second copy of the same story can wait on a shelf at Grandma's house.

Which Christmas books are made for a message from a grandparent?#

Each of these stories has its own message page and puts your grandchild on every page.

• Your Child and Grandpa's Christmas List — Grandpa's Christmas Eve list, Parsnip the goat eating everything on the way, and one tiny line at the bottom he just can't seem to read. Grandpa is painted from his own photo.
• Your Child and the Christmas They Made — snowed in with Grandma and Grandpa, the lights out and the tree never delivered, the three of them make Christmas by hand. Both grandparents are painted from their own photos.
• Your Child and Grandma's Missing Recipe — a small detective and Grandma hunt for the lost Cloud Cake card. Not a Christmas story, so it is read all year.
• Your Child's Very First Christmas — a hushed keepsake for a new grandbaby's first December.
• Where Is Your Child? A Christmas Search-and-Find — twelve snowy hiding places. Order one copy for each house and search the same page together on a video call.

Here is one of them, read in full. Theo is the sample child; your copy stars your grandchild. Look for the last line on Grandpa's list — it is a Christmas message hidden inside the story.

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How the story begins

1. 1On Christmas Eve, Theo ran all the way up the snowy path to Grandpa's little crooked house. The door flew open. “Merry Christmas, Theo!” said Grandpa, with his arms as WIDE as they would go.
2. 2By the fire, Grandpa opened a battered red notebook. “I've made us a LIST,” he said. “Now... where are my glasses?” “ON YOUR HEAD, GRANDPA!”
3. 3Number one: FIND A TREE. They pulled the sled deep into the woods. That one was too tall. That one was too crooked. That one was far too small. “THIS one,” said Theo. It was just right. Parsnip tried to eat it.

The rest of the story is in Your Child and Grandpa's Christmas List.

The words to the song

[Verse 1]
Snow on the rooftops, the fire's aglow,
up to Grandpa's house is where I go.
He's got a list in a notebook red,
but where are his glasses? (Look up on his head!)

[Chorus]
On your head, Grandpa! On your head!
Up on top where the snowflakes fell!
On your head, Grandpa! On your head!
Merry Christmas, I love you — can't you tell?

[Verse 2]
We found a tree that was just my size,
strung up popcorn — the goat ate the prize!
Gingerbread Grandpa with icing specs,
fed all the robins — now what comes next?

[Verse 3]
Snow angels swishing beneath the moon,
a wooden star and a Christmas tune.
Up in his arms I can touch the sky,
just like his grandpa lifted him high.

[Chorus]
On your head, Grandpa! On your head!
Up on top where the snowflakes fell!
On your head, Grandpa! On your head!
Merry Christmas, I love you — can't you tell?

[Outro]
Last line on the list, and I read it true:
"Tell Theo I love him." And I love you too.
Now we're both asleep in the big old chair...
and Grandpa's glasses? On MY head up there!

The guide to a personalized book for Grandma or Grandpa covers the version made for the grandparents, and the personalized Christmas book guide covers ordering dates.

What do grandparents get wrong in Christmas messages?#

• Writing to the parents. "Hope you are all keeping well" is a note to your son or daughter. Write the grandchild's name first and talk to them.
• Adding guilt. "We never see you anymore" lands on a child who does not control the calendar. Say you miss them, then give a date to look forward to.
• Comparing grandchildren. "Your cousin is reading chapter books already" stings for years. Praise each one for their own thing.
• Signing with the wrong name. Use Nana, Pop or Oma — whatever they actually call you.
• Forgetting the year. It feels obvious on the day and is a mystery in a decade.
• Leaving it in a card only. If it is the message you most want them to keep, put it somewhere they keep things.